Wednesday, May 10, 2006

recently, one of my closest frens quarelled wif her best fren. i dun wanna name names. but yeah, if ur reading tis, i'm talking abt u.

apparently, one is upset tt the other has distanced herself n the other tinks tt the upset one is over-reacting. everyone has to grow up, go to new places, hv new commitments, meet new ppl n eventually, hv new best frens. its inevitable tt we wun be able to spend tt same amt of time wif the old frens.

mayb girl A is occupied wif sch wrk, cca, family n new frens.. to such an extent tt girl B feels neglected but much as girl B throws tantrums, nothing much can be done. tis is life. ppl change. circumstances change. but as the friendship drifts apart. someone, regardless whom, hv to make an effort to bind it together. it is diff. it is a challenge.. but like any other concerned fren, i hope u do make an effort to salvage tis friendship. i'm not saying its ur fault. neither am i taking sides. its juz tt if u dun try to bridge tis gap, it'll really be a waste. u may not feel much for it now but 5yrs down the road, u'll regret. totally.

but i hv a msg to girl A.. "friendship is like wine. they grow better as they age." 6mths is nothing compared to 5yrs. the 5yrs where she stood by u n vice-versa. u shared laughter, tears, gd times n bad times.

make the right choice now n u'll continue to share all tis precious times together. i love u both. n i trust tt ur matured n intelligent enough to noe wats gd for urself. anyway, rmbr our date for nxt tues. i hope everything will be rosy by then.

stay happy my dears.